Last December, I wrote a post entitled “New Year: Reflect, Learn and Grow” wherein I shared a compilation of things I learned in 2016.
Being that I am a work in progress and a girl attempting to live this life using it as my personal tutor, I would like to share some new things I have learned this year and THAT ONE lesson that has taken me the longest time to learn.
So . . . Here. We. Go!
In 2017 I learned that . . .
Patience is one virtue, that for me, does not come easy. I learned that the more I seek God, the more He seeks me. I learned that I discovered some of my deepest friendships out of my most difficult circumstances. I learned that I am stronger than I realized. I learned that I can find joy amid pain, because it’s all about perspective. That my dogs are still givers of unconditional love. I learned that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, so hang in there! I learned that traveling fills my soul with immense joy and that I must take the time to do it more often. I learned that my children are my biggest cheerleaders! I learned that on certain days, focusing on the blessings in my life is what keeps me afloat. That spending time alone is the best gift I can give myself. I learned to finally accept the “what is” in my life and leave the “what if’s” to God. I learned that looking at the bright side of things is a CHOICE. I learned that it is MY DUTY to give back every chance I get. I learned that life is beautiful even when things don’t go my way. I learned that a quiet mind is essential for my well-being. I learned that each decision brings about a conflict between head knowledge and heart knowledge and for me, the heart usually wins. I learned to embrace the unexpected. I finally learned to invest in myself. To celebrate the ordinary moments, for they each add up to what truly matters in life. I learned that I bring something special into this world that no one else has. We ALL do! I learned that many things that happen around me are NOT always about me. I learned that when all else fails, Pray!
In closing, I believe we ALL have that “ONE” lesson that no matter how many times it shows up in our life, it takes us a LONG TIME to learn!
Here’s a short clip of “Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday” wherein she asks the very important question, “What lesson has taken you the longest to learn?”
For me, the ONE LESSON that has taken me the longest to learn is the following . . .
“Since we are ALL on our own personal journey, no matter how much I may try, I cannot help another person on THEIR journey. Because it’s personal, they alone MUST do the work for themselves.” So I have learned, in those times, to “LET GO AND LET GOD.”
I can so relate to this. Thanks Sis for sharing 🙂
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Thank you for your kinds words! Love xoxo
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So true! You may think you’re doing the right thing but everyone is on their own journey/path.
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Exactly! I’ve learned that valuable lesson.
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Thank you for sharing your words of faith and learning with us! May 2018 be full of hope and renewal xo
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Thank you Christy for your kind words! Hope 2018 brings many great things your way. 🙂
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I loved this post! What a wonderful way to finish out 2017 – remember not only what God has done, but what you have learned from it. Thank you so much for sharing.
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Thank you for your kind words. I agree, we should live in a constant space of gratitude for all that God does for us. Love! 🙂
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Wow !!! How true and inspirational. Thank you for sharing my friend .
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Thank you, Cary!!! Love! 🙂
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Very well said and so on point ! ❤️
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Very well said and so on point ! Thank you ❤️
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Thank you Barb!! Love! 🙂
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We all learn so much each year if we will just take the time to remember where we were. I enjoyed this post because it reminded me of all I learned.
Be blessed
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So glad to hear! I know for me, I try to learn from every experience. Bless you!
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Much of what you wrote here resonates with all of us. Aren’t we blessed that the Lord is so very patient with us because, speaking for myself, sometimes it takes me YEARS to learn my lessons?
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Absolutely!!! It has taken me many years, but God never gives up on me and for that I am thankful and humbled! Have a blessed new year! 🙂
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The longest lesson that I feel has taken me the longest to learn is that I can’t do everything by myself and that I have to depend on God in times of struggle.
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That is a great lesson and one we often forget! We should live by putting God first, the rest then will follow. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and have a blessed new year!
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It’s taken me most of my life to learn how to use my mind. Excellent post, Thanks and Happy New Year! I found your blog on When Women Inspire. I’m glad I came to visit. 🙂
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for stopping by. All the best for the new year!
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You too. Happy New Year!
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Learning from life is the best teacher! 2017 summarised! Thank you for a beautiful share!
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Yes, life is our best teacher, if we allow it to be. Thank you for stopping by! Happy New Year!
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That a human man complete me! 😜😜
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Yes!
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That was such a beautiful share. I can so relate to that. We all have a different journey for which we all need to go through on our own and with God’s help. As long as we have faith, everything is possible. So grateful for his grace, love and patience towards us. This new year is going to be a great year full of God’s blessings for everyone. Happy New Year 2018 🎊
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Amen Monica!!! Thank you for reading and for your inspiring words!
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My longest to learn lesson: very slowly learning to forgive those who hurt me, but who don’t acknowledge what they’ve done, or say sorry XXXXX
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Yes, that’s always difficult to do, but necessary I feel. Not for them, but for us. Thanks for sharing!
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