Paulo Coelho has said that . . .
“A child can teach an adult three things:
to be happy for no reason,
to always be busy with something,
and to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires.”
Being an adult is a constant reminder of our responsibilities, all the while forgetting how to LIVE LIFE FULLY. We remember to be an active participant of the “rat race” while forgetting what it’s like to “slow down and smell the roses.”
As adults, I believe we can learn much when we view the world through the eyes of a child.
Here are 5 beautiful ways in which children live and the valuable lessons they teach us!
#1 THEY LIVE IN THE MOMENT
Children don’t dwell on the past and certainly do not worry about the future. They fully enjoy the HERE AND NOW! For them, the present moment IS the only moment!
#2 THEY ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH
Children always say what’s on their mind. They say what they mean, and truly mean what they say, making no apologies for it. They have not been jaded, so for them HONESTY is the only way.
#3 THEY KNOW HOW TO FORGIVE
Children get upset at each other, THEN they get over it. They apologize when it’s appropriate and move on. They don’t dwell on what was done to them and “rehash” a situation. It happens, they argue, they forgive. DONE!
#4 THEY LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY
Their love is pure and their motives are genuine. They love without an agenda and hold nothing back. They feel free to express their love without reservations.
#5 THEY ARE ALWAYS THEMSELVES
Children understand the simplicity of just being themselves. They don’t get caught up in trying to impress anyone. They don’t place emphasis on how they may come across to others, THEY JUST ARE!
Through My Eyes
I know children are supposed to learn from me, but through the years, as I’ve watched them closely, I am aware of how much MORE they have taught me!
And although they are oblivious to how much of an impact they’ve had,
I would be a fool not to follow their lead on how to live this one life!
Wish there was a LOVE button for this one. I can’t help but love this considering I work with children everyday, all day and have for the over twenty some years! They are my inspiration! Thanks for your insight on this! 😀
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Funny you say that, because I was thinking the same thing the other day about your post. Thank you!
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As the grandmother of a 2-year-old, I’d say you are spot on with this one. We adults need to take lessons from our children. 🙂
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Yes, I agree! I often wonder at what age do we forget how to be this way?
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Reblogged this on JANE CATHERINE ROZEK and commented:
A recent blog on Faith/Love/Sout, captures the way to live well. Yamina, I love how you wrote this! Jesus said, “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” Matthew 18:3
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Thank you Jane! I am glad it resonates with you. 🙂
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What a tightly written post! I needed to hear exactly this message today. Captures the essence so perfectly I had to reblog it.
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Thank you!
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Very true my sis. The Bible says: if we are not like children we will not see the kingdom of heaven.
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Yes! Thank you!!
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Beautifully written…so on point!!
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Thank you Elizabeth!
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I can totally relate to your post, my boys are aged 4 and 5 – and yes they are everything you’ve mentioned above. 🙂
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I hope you don’t mind but I really want to reblog this post.
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I don’t mind at all! Glad you liked it! 🙂
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I am sure of it! Enjoy them!
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Reblogged this on Witty Mummy and commented:
“I know children are supposed to learn from me, but through the years, as I’ve watched them closely, I am aware of how much MORE they have taught me!
And although they are oblivious to how much of an impact they’ve had,
I would be a fool not to follow their lead on how to live this one life!”
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I agree, my own children as well as my classroom children have taught me so much about life and how to live it. Enjoyed reading your post!
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Thank you!
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Simply beautiful and true☺
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Thank you!
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A lovely, lovely post. ❤ I can't help adding a footnote though. The coping mechanisms children devise in the face of loss, sorrow, and abuse may not serve them well as adults.
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Very True!
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Such truth to your writing! And I love seeing my favourite author pop up, Paulo Coelho is such an insightful writer. Thank you for sharing!
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Thank you!
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